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the sun and the moon are both out together … it looks magical. I love how Mount Diablo, which is right in front of me now , has turned a colour, which can be best described as something between pink, brown and orange… a colour i feel deserves more recognition, but I am afraid I don’t know what is it called.

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I feel this view is quite analogous to so many phenomenon in my life.

Like how I hate and love my family

Like how ambitious I am and how utterly lazy I am

Like how much I love writing and how much I don’t write at all

 

So hello blog,  I used to love you a long time back… and now I am back knocking on your doors for respite, for validation, for love. Please, love me back.

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sex

that’s all i think of now a days.

 

I want to be a writer.

I want to be a doer.

I have the potential to.

But I dunno man….

Everything you want to be requires so much effort. I am the generation that grew up with the 10,000 hours shit… and that’s a lot of hours, mate.

So I need to read every day, for starters.

I need to write more frequently.

I need to really want to be what I want to be and I feel I don’t.

So wannabe I might just be. For now

 

To the one I love

Not having you is doing some thing to me… or just undoing me.

It’s an otherworldly feeling (because worldly for me is sexual satisfaction) where by in the middle of a banal activity, my vagina shudders… an actual physical manifestation of how much my body misses you… misses you, not because my heart misses you, but my body on its own misses you.
I have found a soundtrack to this yearning.
The first couple of weeks it was unbearable, being away from you. I thought I would just drop dead from the excruciating restlessness… the anxiety of it all…
but now buried deep within that anxiety and restlessness, i have found a reassurance …for the ever flightyy, ever moving heart of mine… that the love I have for you trickles down to every nook and cranny of my being…I find pieces of it every where..
I find them in my heart.
I find them in my happy place.
I find them in the aforementioned shudders of my vagina.
I find them in my thoughts
I find them in my past
I find them in my present
and I find them in my future
I find them in the babies I want to have with you
I find them in the life I want to build with you
I find them in the home we will have.
I love you so much mayri jaan.

 

You didn’t message.

After saying for two days about how you would come to see me in the most likelihood. In the morning you told me you were contemplating it and  you followed that by sending me a picture of a girl bent over with her pussy clearly visible.

and then you disappeared?

You thought you could leave me high and dry and I would bend over … like the girl in the picture.

Oh darling, how utterly juvenile of you. True to the only twenty something years you have spent on this planet and to the less than a decade long experience of playing this game.

Me being me, I called over the boy I told you about and fucked the bejesus out of him, all the while imagining you.

 

 

Is it normal to go into an existentialist crisis after a miscarriage?

To wonder about who you are and what really is life and whether you mean a lot to God or simply nothing?

To have your heart beat so fast that you start wondering how far is your finish line anyway?

To physically be so exhausted that you wonder how bad could a paralysis be?

To be ashamed of how easy it is for you to doubt everything you ever believed in?

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Walk away if you want to.

There is a brand of shame and humiliation you feel when your husband tells you to pack your bags and leave.

I don’t know of a married woman who hasn’t heard it. Mostly it’s said in a burst of anger, during or after some everyday fight. It’s not to be translated into action. That’s hardly the expectation. It’s just a bunch of angry words.just an empty threat.

Husband, I know you love me and you always mean well. But when you say this you kill me. Kill my selfrespect, kill my ego. You know I don’t have nowhere to go. So in that moment I feel so frustrated and it is only out of that sheer frustration that I start regressing. I start wrapping up the argument. I mean even without the protruding belly, I couldn’t have braved the world on my own. What will I do with a child?… So while before I could throw a tantrum and go stay at a friend’s now I feel humiliated and ashamed and frustrated and belittle-d

So if you want the woman you married and not some undignified, sorry excuse for a person, don’t say this again. It takes away from who I am, the woman you love.

Frustrations

There are a many. A great many.

But nothing can be more frustrating than unrequited love, I tell you.

I remember a time when husband pined after me. Saw me with I-want-to-Fuck-you-bad-eyes and had his heart broken by many a cruel demands for space. I was ruthless like that.

Four years later, post a marriage of two years and a baby on it’s way I guess I have lost it. Whatever that bloody “it” was. He wants food and fresh clothes in the morning. I want conversations and sex. He wants me to give him space. I want his hands all over me. It doesn’t help that he’s filled up oh so nicely and still smells so good.

So yeah, this unrequited love business is the cruellest ever, for sure.

arkh – i’m gonna be a cliche

It upsets me and then I get over it and then when I feel I am all over it, I find out surprisingly that I am actually still not over it.

People at work think I’m having an affair. People have thought that previously as well. Not the first time. This time they have been thinking this for the past one year. What is different this time is that its with someone I genuinly care about. The person in question happens to be much (much) older than me, married with 2 kids, he happens to be one of the most decent people I know. I love him, adore him and respect him. However I hate how it has become this weird uncomfortable thing when it shouldnt be. He’s very respected, being in a senior management position, which makes me often feel that it might have to do with jealousy as well… either way i hate how this is such a thing! it frustrates me and annoys me! There are times when I am stepping out to grab a bite and I feel like I am more concious about who I am telling this seemingly innocous news to. Fortunately both him and I are married to people who are self- assured and dont give much heed to such nonsense .. still its a pain and a half.

 

Makes me wonder how sad everyone around me really is. Its been a year since I have been friend’s with him and people havent gotten bored with it yet, amazing really!

and no, this is being published without a proofread hence the hundred mistakes i must have made. i apologize.

Waiting to dance for you…

I want to dance for you, hazel-eyed boy. My gift to you.

I want to see you, looking at me, dancing for you. My gift to me.

You complimented me on my eyes once. You said the real dancing happens there. You laughed when I told you what anatomy of yours was the queen ballerina.

So when you are away and I am feeling your away-ness a tad too much, thats what  I miss the most. Dancing for you. Your eyes on me. The perfect cock-tail of love and lust in your eyes. Sheer joy, for me.